The Trap of Chasing Approval

Sunday Rewind is a 5-day Devotional based on the weekly sermon at Resonate Community Church

August 2nd Sermon, Day 3

Leah named her first three sons with one hope in mind: that Jacob would finally love her. Each name was a quiet prayer that this time, things would be different. This time, he would see her.

It is easy to judge that kind of striving until you recognize it in yourself. How often do we work harder, perform better, or change who we are just to earn someone's approval? And how often does it actually deliver the peace we were hoping for? Approval is a moving target. People's opinions shift. Circumstances change. Building your sense of worth on what others think of you is exhausting, and it never holds.

God, on the other hand, never changes. His love for you is not based on your performance. It is not withdrawn when you fail. Locating your identity in Him is not just a nice idea. It is the only foundation that will actually hold. You do not have to keep chasing. You are already seen. You are already loved. That is not something you earn. It is something you receive.

Bible Verse

"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose." - Romans 8:28

Reflection Question

Whose approval are you working hardest to earn right now, and how is that pursuit affecting your sense of peace?

Quote

"Approval is a terrible foundation for peace. Imagine trying to stand on a ladder that's leaning against a moving vehicle. Right? That's what happens when our peace depends on other people."

Prayer

God, I confess that I have looked to others to tell me I am enough. Teach me to receive my worth from You, and free me from the exhausting cycle of chasing approval. Amen.