The Gift of Godly Grief

Sunday Rewind is a 5-day Devotional based on the weekly sermon at Resonate Community Church

November 30th Sermon, Day 3

After the rooster crowed and Peter realized what he had done, he went outside and wept bitterly. These weren't just tears of embarrassment or self-pity - they were tears of genuine grief over his failure. And surprisingly, these tears became one of the most important spiritual moments of his life.

There's something powerful about the moment we truly see our failure for what it is. Not making excuses, not blaming circumstances, not minimizing the impact - just honest, heartbroken recognition of how we've fallen short. Peter's tears weren't just about getting caught; they were about the devastating realization that he had betrayed the person he loved most.

In our culture, we often try to move past failure quickly. We want to 'get over it' and move on. But sometimes the most important thing we can do is sit with our grief over our sin. Not to wallow in shame, but to let our hearts be truly broken over how our choices have affected our relationship with God and others.

Peter's bitter weeping was actually the beginning of his restoration, not the end of his story. Those tears represented a heart that still cared, a conscience that was still alive, and a love that was still real despite his failure. His grief showed that his relationship with Jesus mattered more to him than his own comfort or reputation.

When we fail, the enemy wants us to believe that our tears are evidence of our unworthiness. But God sees our godly grief as evidence that his Spirit is still working in us, preparing our hearts for the restoration that's coming.

Bible Verse

'But he denied it. "Woman, I don't know him," he said. About an hour later another asserted, "Certainly this fellow was with him, for he is a Galilean." Peter replied, "Man, I don't know what you're talking about!" Just as he was speaking, the rooster crowed. The Lord turned and looked straight at Peter. Then Peter remembered the word the Lord had spoken to him: "Before the rooster crows today, you will disown me three times." And he went outside and wept bitterly.' - Luke 22:56-62

Reflection Question

When you fail spiritually, do you allow yourself to feel genuine grief over your sin, or do you try to quickly move past it without truly processing what happened?

Quote Sometimes the most important spiritual moment that you and I are going to have in our lives is the moment that we weep over our failure.

Prayer

Lord, give me a heart that grieves over sin the way you do. Help me not to run from the pain of failure, but to let it drive me back to you. Thank you that my tears matter to you and that you use even my grief for good. Amen.