Words That Build Up

Sunday Rewind is a 5-day Devotional based on the weekly sermon at Resonate Community Church

February 1st Sermon, Day 4

Every word we speak has the power to either build someone up or tear them down. Think about the words that have shaped you - both the encouraging ones that gave you confidence and the harsh ones that still echo in your mind years later. Our words carry that same power in the lives of others.

Paul challenges us to examine our speech patterns. Do our words spread grace, truth, mercy, and love? Or do they spread decay and filth? This isn't just about avoiding obvious sins like cursing or gossip. It's about intentionally choosing words that benefit those who listen. Consider your conversations with your family, coworkers, or friends. Are you quick to criticize or slow to encourage? Do you focus on what's wrong or look for what's going right? When someone shares a struggle with you, do your words offer hope and support, or do they add to their burden?

The beautiful thing about choosing life-giving words is that it transforms not just the listener, but also the speaker. When we make it our habit to speak encouragement, we begin to see people differently. We start noticing their strengths instead of just their weaknesses. We become agents of God's grace in a world that often feels harsh and critical. This doesn't mean we avoid difficult conversations or never address problems. It means we approach these conversations with the goal of building up rather than tearing down, always asking ourselves: 'How can my words bring life to this situation?'

Bible Verse

'Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.' - Ephesians 4:29

Reflection Question

Looking at your recent conversations, what patterns do you notice in your speech, and how can you be more intentional about using words that build others up?

Quote

Our words about people can either lift them up or tear them down.

Prayer

God, help me to be mindful of my words and their impact on others. Give me wisdom to speak life and encouragement, even in difficult situations. Let my words be a reflection of Your love and grace. Amen.